Advice article dating
I even had one reader who had gave the man a hard time the day after their first date when his profile was still up.
His response actually makes me wonder if he even realizes that he could hide his profile.Perhaps not nice or courteous but not unfair either.It’s especially bothersome if his actions suggest exclusivity even if he hasn’t declared so in words…and yet it is still acceptable in my mind for him to keep his profile up, even in this case.As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.Still, these are areas you will need him to define.You enjoy each others’ company, enjoy the same things and over the next month or so you start to date more seriously. However there is one problem: his dating profile is still active.
If this sounds like your situation, you’re not alone.
Moving Towards an Exclusive Relationship Assuming the “let’s be exclusive” conversation hasn’t happened, I would recommend you start to slowly but intentionally determine if he feels your relationship is headed in that direction.
Where does he see this relationship going, exactly?
While I still believe what I wrote there, I’m finding that many of the women who are contacting me are not at the point where they are sure if the man is their “boyfriend” or not.
With that in mind I wanted to review one of the recent emails I’ve received from a reader and offer some additional advice for this problem.
First off let me say that many men keep their profiles active even though they are interested in the woman they are regularly dating.