How to increase a womans interest in dating you
I pointed out to them all that the same path was open to them.
By their 40s, most of my women friends were having affairs.Another said sex with her husband always took exactly four minutes: one minute to work up to it, two minutes to his orgasm and one minute to wind down. It didn't surprise me these women had wild affairs in their 40s. The other had her heart broken and crept back to her marriage - but she was stronger and much more confident after the affair.'He doesn't talk to me before, during or afterwards,' she said. For me, who stayed single, sex in my 40s was the sweet relief of putting aside the torture of my 30s.I was by then 48 and had fleetingly entertained the notion (I can't believe why now) that I might not be as alluring as I had been as a younger woman. I was bowled over by the avalanche of male attention and was pursued even more hotly than I had been in my tender youth.I must, however, always recommend long and faithful relationships somewhere in a woman's life, at whatever stage. Those years hone your bed-skills, your sensitivity to another human being's needs, mood swings and moments of exhaustion. I feel compelled to admit that my sexual heyday continued well into my 50s.It was a prolonged and hugely life-enhancing celebration. Of course women in their 40s are having the best sex of their lives.
But it's hardly to do with 'the railing at the inevitability of death' and 'losing our looks', as one psychologist has claimed.
A woman becomes a marvellous partner with increasing years. Then I reinvented myself as a sober and somewhat - though not entirely - celibate being.
Now, at 77, I can look back with pleasure at how I indulged my sexual appetite.
The sexual attraction between us was such that we had enjoyed wild and wonderful, passionate sex three times a day for the entire marriage. cuddling up at night before going to sleep, when the warmth of a naked body beside yours is irresistible ...
and in the middle of the day, because we both worked from home and couldn't resist the thrill of it. We were twin souls and totally compatible sexual partners.
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