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“It's hard sometimes, especially when you like someone and feel a connection.
He seems like a perfect fit for you: You both have a ton of fun hanging out together, and he seems totally interested.You’re fabulous, and your guy should want to show you off, not keep you a secret. He’s gentle and kind, and he treats you like the princess you are.But when you’re hanging out with him in a group setting, he suddenly enters douche mode and you’re left feeling confused and disgusted.“If you're an important part of [this] man's life, he will want you to meet his friends, so he can show you off to them." Next time he mentions his posse, ask to meet them!Or tell him you want tag along to a party he’s going to. But if he finds a way to get around your requests, let him go.That guy may never open up to the idea of a relationship, and you don’t want to end up heartbroken.
He’s the sweetest guy ever when it’s just the two of you. You’re getting the sense that he’s hiding you from his friends. “If you've been dating for a while, then that's a big, red flag when a guy never wants you to meet his friends or family,” Oshima says.
I wish everyone could see the sweet guy that I see.” Give him time to fix his behavior after you’ve talked.
If he does it again, Oshima says to “get up and walk out.” If he comes around, cut ties with this guy.
A guy who leaves you on the line just isn’t worth it.
After all, you want a man who romantic; he held your hand and gave you a kiss.
Does his evil twin take over every time you guys hang out with friends? “This guy is very insecure and feels the need to show off in front of his friends,” Oshima says.