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Does it sound like he told me that to try and make me feel better, because he felt bad for me?
” You’re really asking two different questions here, Lisa. You also want to know if this means he wants to marry you…. That doesn’t mean that marriage results every time two people are in love. Since love is so powerful it will over ride all those mind blockages that are troubling him at the moment.I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and I want you to know that I do love you.You deserve to be loved.” I started to cry a little, hugged him and told him how much that meant to me.I have a tendency to over analyze things and I don’t want to ask him a million questions and make him regret telling me that.How can you tell if your boyfriend really loves you? I’ve been going through a rough time and I’ve been having trouble processing thoughts and emotions.It’s really hard for some guys to say those words, and that’s not just an excuse for my gender. your boyfriend is probably at a crossroads between priorities in his life.
Since women place such great meaning on “I love you”, men have learned to adapt in one of two, super-logical ways: Saying they love you without really meaning it. I get why you want to know if he’s in love, but the truth is that he probably doesn’t even know. But just because he loves you now doesn’t mean he’ll love you forever, and just because you love him now doesn’t mean you’ll love him forever. its obvious what you want but his wants and needs are in a juggle. what i would suggest is to help him find that balance.
So whatever I’m doing here is just making an educated guess.
I’ll admit, I was a little choked up when you got to the part where he told you that he loved you. Continue to love him, continue to let him invest in you and open up to you, and if you’re not getting the consistent feedback you need to feel secure, you know what you need to do.
Not saying they love you until they’re really, really sure. He probably does love you but is scared to think about marriage at the moment.
Sounds like your boyfriend is in the second category. Well, what could he tell you that would make you believe him? You can either 1) take a leap of faith, 2) agonize over not knowing, or 3) accept the fact that you’ll never know. He doesn’t want to keep your expectation levels at a high point with a time line. He will come through and appreciate all you have done for him.
I am 25 years old and I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years.